You must not believe everything you hear or see because things are not always what they sound or seem. The bible encourages telling the truth and being honest but since it is difficult to trust one’s neighbor people tend to withhold the truth. I am not trying to justify anything here but what I am trying to say is that you cannot always trust your own judgement or perception of other people. Even if your neighbor is a devout Christian people still find it difficult to open up and tell the whole truth. It is not everyone who seems to be happy who is really happy. It is not everyone who seem to be hurting who is really hurting. It is not every couple that seem to be in love and is really in love. However, there may be a few individuals that one can confide in because careful study of their personality and character has proven them to be worth sharing some things with.